Under Construction - MHWA Retreat

I've taken this test a few months ago. We were talking about personalities in one class and they told us to take this test to find out which of the personality we have. To be more precise, I took the test twice in a different time and both times got INFJ- The Advocate (more about this type here: https://www.16personalities.com/infj-personality). Apparently, I'm rare kind (less than 1% of the population has this type of personality) which I really think I am. There are a lot of things I agree with in my results here. I'd say the best parts of my personality is that I don't get to talk about the best parts of my personality . But no, I have no idea how to answer this. I think it depends on how the others see us. For example, someone will think I'm too pushy and they don't like that. Others will think that it's great that I can be pushy because only then I can achieve something. I agree with both of them though which again tells that I have troubles with making definite decisions but this is also because I'm Libra in the horoscope and can't help my natural, doubtful instincts. The main point of my personality is that, if I only want one thing more than another thing I'll just go and get it, but to get to the point to want one thing more than another thing sometimes takes ages just because I always doubt, I always have a billion reasons why something might (or not) work. I don't know. I guess it's hard to be overthinker. I can always find something to add even when there's nothing more to be said.

The worse thing about my personality is that I have trust issues and that I find really hard to establish connections with new people. My personal philosophy in life is: the less you love people, the less you'll miss them when they're gone, so I truly avoid to make strong connections. The reason for this is because I believe I'm a little bit complicated person with all my thoughts, because I always expect a lot from another person or at least I expect mutual understanding which is not always achievable. You can look it up under this personality and you'll see that, even though we like people, we just don't do all deep relationships thing. I guess I'm mostly superficial with everyone I meet because simply I don't want to know people. I always dream about the person though who will know me so well, my every thought before I even put it in my head, someone I can trust to with my complete being but I know I'll never find that person. It just seems impossible, especially because I don't really allow most of them to get to know me better either . Oh well.. *shrug*.

What I like the most about other people is when they make me feel comfortable being around them. Like Charlie for example. I can tell him anything really. Maybe this is because we don't know each other, it is always easier to say things to a stranger but it is still something very important to me- to feel comfortable and relaxed, just being my-real-self.

Famous people/fictional characters who have the same traits are Nelson Mandela, Jon Snow (of course Targaryen rules ), Goethe, Morgan Freeman. Well.. okay. I'd always choose The Night's Watch too.