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Hmmm... can you just like... tell her that she's invading your personal space? I know that I'm more blunt than the average joe or whatever, but like... "you're suffocating me... sit *over there*"... that doesn't seem too rude to me. Or, depending on how badly it's driving you nuts... maybe a longer conversation about how you like her, but she's driving you nuts? Like... just tell her, love. Couch it with 'I like you but' and 'you aren't doing anything wrong really, but I'm not a super close type', maybe?

I dunno how you stand it. I don't like to be touched. When someone gets too close, I tell them as much.

As for kicking people out... tell her the truth. "Hey, it's been fun, but I need to take a shower and get to bed." If she tries to start a new conversation, say that'll you'll talk about it tomorrow. Done. And not rude AT ALL. On this one, I'm sure of it.