 Romance/Love: July 05, 2006 Issue [#1138] |
  Romance/Love
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"Your tendencies are short, my expectations are long.
And as I see it now, there's not much to go on."
~ Bette Midler, "Big Socks"
"Where the mail train stops and there ain't no cops,
and the folks are tender-hearted
Where you never change your socks and you never throw rocks,
and your hair is never parted"
~ Harry McClintock, "Big Rock Candy Mountain"
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Some people say you can judge a man by the shoes on his feet. I like to take it one step further. I believe that you can tell a lot about a person's character just by the style of socks he chooses to wear.
For this issue, I am classifying men by the socks they wear. Separating men into categories is a great tool to use when creating your characters, plus a fun game if you are in the singles market.
Let's take a look at man who prefers crew socks. He is a man's man. He is passionate about maintaining his physique and playing or watching sports. While learning about art history or western civilization does not interest him, he still lends an attentive ear if that is what you're enthusiastic about. Most of the time he doesn't like to discuss emotional things, but when you're in need he'll be by your side. He has a macho way about him that makes you feel secure and protected. A romantic date planned by him is likely to consist of something catered. He might need a little help setting the mood, but once there, his mind and eyes are focused on you. Since he's not an artistic kind of guy, you can count on a Hallmark card for your anniversary.
If a man is decked out in dress socks, he is business savvy and has a knowledge of exotic things. His ideas about romance are more of the classic sort, such as dinner at a fine restaurant and waltzing by candlelight. Though he doesn't wear his emotions on his sleeve, he isn't too shy to recite a poem to you. His compliments come from the heart and he never fails at making you feel like a lady. When he's off on a business venture somewhere, you can expect flowers to be delivered to you. He wants you to know that you're in his thoughts.
A guy who dons thermal socks may be rough around the edges, but he's one with nature. He isn't afraid to show his softer side. He's likely to romance you by a campfire beneath the stars. He thrives on the idea of being able to take care of someone and nurture them by working diligently. His family is very important to him. The ultimate gift from him would be something he wrote or made for you.
A good way to describe a man who opts for ankle socks is carefree and loving. He appreciates the simple things in life. He likes sports but will give up the football game to spend time with you. Fancy things are not a priority with him. He'd rather have a quiet night at home with you instead of being in a crowded area. If he has a game to go play, he wants you there cheering him on. A barefoot walk on the beach while holding your hand is ideal for him.
What about mismatched socks? There's no other way to explain it: comedy is his drive! He believes that laughter is the best medicine. He is full of surprises and always searching for the perfect opportunity to pull a prank on you, or one of your friends. There's rarely a quiet moment when it comes to a romantic date. He is likely to make a joke in serious times, though it is always with good intentions. He opts for stand-up comedy tickets, an amusement park, or a weekend in Vegas. Don't be too surprised if he leaves you silly love notes around the house, or if he sends you on a wild goose chase in search of a date destination. Though it may seem like he's always trying to be the center of attention, really he cares about showing you a good time.
Be cautious of a man who dresses in holey socks. At first it will feel nice to be needed by him. However, it becomes apparent rather quickly that he relies on you to fill in the holes of his life and make him happy. He has a lot of issues and you'll soon learn that he's wholly devoted to his own problems.
When we search for a partner we look for someone with similar interests, morals, and ethics. We know that we will have a difference of opinion from time to time, but we can choose to be accepting of one another. Instead of trying to find the perfect mate, we should be looking for the person that suits us the best.
My ideal pair of socks feels soft against my feet, but will still remain sturdy if I decide to do some running. Which type of sock would you be most comfortable with even through all the washing, wearing, and tearing? Next time you're out shopping hit the sock aisle. You may just snag yourself a great pair of socks.
 Lexi's Romance Newsletter Challenge: Classify types of men or women by comparing them to something else. Submit it to the newsletter or email me the link, and I'll feature it in my next issue.
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 The Milkman : Lexi, let's say that the "Honeymoon" is over, how can you tell your heart to continue on with your life and start looking for a new love?
 Hey, Moo. When someone says that the "honeymoon" period is over it means that the relationship has had time to develop. The "everything is perfect" feeling has stopped, but it doesn't mean that the relationship is over. It just means that the fairytale image we had previously has subsided.
Starting over after breaking up with someone is difficult, especially if your heart isn't ready. Your mind may be telling you it's time to move on, but your heart may disagree. If you want to give the next person you pursue a fair chance then your mind should be in agreement with your heart.
Blue-Inspired : Lexi, Thank you so much for writing about Love In The Real World in your Letter From The Editor. I really enjoyed it and agreed with a lot of it! I've been happily married for 18 years to a wonderful man I met almost right out of high school. We have mostly the same interests with just enough differences to make things fun. We've grown comfortable with each other over the years, but the passion is still there. We keep it alive by good communication, not being mean or spiteful, and always remembering the little things, like compliments out of the blue and thoughtful acts of kindness. Thank you for the Newsletter! Write On!
Octobers Lie  : Lexi, What a fantastic newsletter! It was absolutely wonderful and inspirational.
cerianwen : Hi Lexi, I always read your newsletters but this one struck me to the core. It is my first wedding anniversary on 18th June and hubby and I are off for a romantic trip away to where it all began. You are definitely right about settling into a routine, spontanaiety is the key, keep it alive and fresh with suprises every day, talk about everything and everything, and sometimes its the little things that mean the most. Great newsletter as always Lexi.
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