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This week: Not Qualified to be a Hopeless Romantic Edited by: GeminiGem🐾  
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Not Qualified to be a Hopeless Romantic
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When I was in 8th grade, I was befriended by a couple of 9th graders on the school bus. They were freshmen in high school and I was still in junior high school (that's how things worked back in the day). They seemed so much older and wiser than me. When the girls found out that I liked to read they decided to loan me a whole grocery bag full of paper-back books from their own collections.
The books were classic 1970s Harlequin Romances. https://www.goodreads.com/shelf/show/harlequin-1970s
This was an eye-opening experience for me because I had never read anything like these books before this. The ones I remember were centered around a younger sister that had a big crush on a gorgeous guy who seemed to prefer her older sister (much to the detriment of her tender heart). She would see them with their arms around the other, their heads bent together as they spoke intimately, etc. The younger sister would spend a lot of time feeling spurned. In the end, the gorgeous guy would confess that he had been in love with the younger sister the whole time, and they would live happily ever after.
But would they? Even at this early age I couldn't help but think to myself, why all the PDA (public displays of affection) with the older sister if he was really in love with the younger sister? How awkward would family gatherings be? Why would the gorgeous guy be in love with the younger sister if he had basically zero interactions with her and spent all of his free time with the older sister? Perhaps I became a cynic at an early age.
This reading experience may or may not have been the beginning of my avoidance of anything that is billed as a "romance."
Am I anti-love? Am I anti-romance? Absolutely not! I just feel that a strong, loving relationship cannot exist in a bubble. Love should be woven into the fabric of our characters' lives rather than occur as a separate entity. Although love can be a mysterious phenomenon, it still needs to be believable to a reader. This may be a better explanation of why I am uncomfortable with something that is strictly a romance story (besides being a lousy hopeless romantic). Please remember, these are my opinions, offered up only to give you something to swirl around in your brain rather than to criticize how anyone is writing (including those folks who write Harlequin Romances and probably make a fine living doing it).
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