Romance/Love: September 20, 2023 Issue [#12176]
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 This week: Showing Affection
  Edited by: Lilith 🎄 Christmas Cheer Author IconMail Icon
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1. About this Newsletter
2. A Word from our Sponsor
3. Letter from the Editor
4. Editor's Picks
5. A Word from Writing.Com
6. Ask & Answer
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About This Newsletter

“Affection is responsible for nine-tenths of whatever solid and durable happiness there is in our lives.”
~ C. S. Lewis

“To truly love we must learn to mix various ingredients - care, affection, recognition, respect, commitment, and trust, as well as honest and open communication.”
~ Bell Hooks

“His affections, like ivy, were the growth of time, they implied no aptness in the object.”
~ Robert Louis Stevenson

“Since we weren’t married, we couldn’t kiss each other in public, or even give one another a friendly hug to express our extreme joy. We risked imprisonment and being whipped.”
~ Marjane Satrapi, Author of Persepolis


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Letter from the editor

There are many ways we can show love and affection to our loved ones and we can use them for our writing; allowing characters to express the same with each other.

Sometimes when we write, we tend not to think beyond our own experiences and that can limit the characters’ actions and reactions in our stories. So, this week will look at different ways to show affection; while maintaining a ‘G’ rating.

*Heartp* Physical Expression:

*Bulletp* brushing the hair from someone's face
*Bulletp* the forehead kiss
*Bulletp* kissing one's hand, knuckles, fingers
*Bulletp* hand holding
*Bulletp* one offering the other an arm
*Bulletp* nose boops
*Bulletp* kiss on the nose
*Bulletp* kiss on the cheek
*Bulletp* resting your head on someone's shoulder
*Bulletp* sitting side-by-side

*Heartp* Non-physical Expressions

*Bulletp* showing up unexpectedly to show support
*Bulletp* bringing a coffee, snack, etc.
*Bulletp* a small gift
*Bulletp* text message of a poem or link to a song
*Bulletp* eye contact
*Bulletp* helping with chores/tasks
*Bulletp* giving sincere compliments
*Bulletp* conversations
*Bulletp* cooking a meal for someone, making their lunch
*Bulletp* notes or cards
*Bulletp* go for a walk together
*Bulletp* stargazing on the beach

Get the idea? These are a small sampling of ideas you can use in your stories. But always remember to "show, don't tell".



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Ask & Answer

Comments received from my last Romance/Love Newsletter, "It Takes a VillageOpen in new Window..

Elisa: Snowman Stik Author Icon wrote:
Not gonna lie. I read all these character archetypes and headdesked. Then again, I'm not so much a romance genre writer as I am a writer of (hyper) realistic love stories that cross heavily into other genres. My characters tend to skewer many archetypes. My protagonists tend to be either lady lone wolves (not something seen a whole lot) or haves a lot of competing passions that make romantic love at best a secondary concern (think a career or volunteer role in public service). Rivals are next to nonexistent. Love interests aren't even revealed to be love interests until halfway through (and often have direct conversations with the protagonist's spouse before this revelation occurs). The sidekicks tend to be a bit more serious. And let's not even get started on how the romantic love is often a subplot or secondary theme in regards to the plot. Oftentimes there's a bigger social danger that looms large and has to be dealt with first by all the characters.

Clearly my interest has been to write stories about love with unconventional groupings (note I said groupings and not pairings) and a frame of mind more akin to someone who is middle aged. That last one is pretty strange since I'm not yet 40. I'm getting there, though. Maybe my brain has been 40+ this whole time.


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