Women who are hard to love

Inspired by Warsan Shire: "For women who are hard to love"

hard to love? that doesn't even sound real,
how is hard to love a woman who gives you all that she feels
a woman that's true, flawed but sincere
a woman in touch with who she is, why she's here
is she too kind? too gentle? what more do you need?
too aggressive? too strong? too ready to lead?

self actualized with a good heart
she'll continue to love, while you tear her apart.