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| Creativity doesn’t disappear because writers lack talent; it fades when it’s asked to justify itself too early, too often, and to the wrong people. Blog Some time ago, I received a detailed review of a chapter I had been working on for months. The feedback was thoughtful, confident, and thorough — and after reading it, I closed the document and didn’t write a single word for the rest of the day. Nothing was “wrong,” exactly. But something in me went quiet. I kept turning the comments over in my head, wondering whether my voice was enough, whether I was telling the story the “right” way, and whether I should keep revising until it fit expectations I couldn’t quite name. What Actually Keeps Creativity Alive If you’re a writer, you’ve probably felt this at some point. You sit down to write because something inside you wants to be said. A story. A feeling. A truth you can’t quite name yet. You follow it onto the page, and for a while, it feels alive. Real. Yours. Then you share it. And suddenly, the room fills with opinions. Detailed ones. Confident ones. Often well-meaning. Sometimes helpful. Sometimes loud enough to drown out your own inner voice. And without noticing exactly when it happens, the question shifts. It stops being, “Is this true to what I’m trying to say?” And becomes, “Is this what they expect?” That’s usually where creativity starts to wobble. Creativity doesn’t disappear because writers lack discipline or talent. It fades when it’s asked to justify itself too early, too often, and to the wrong people. So what actually keeps creativity alive? First, creativity needs permission to be unfinished. Early drafts aren’t arguments. They’re explorations — you feeling your way forward in the dark. When every version of a story has to explain itself or defend its choices, imagination tends to shut down. Creativity needs room to be awkward, nonlinear, even messy. Sometimes you need to be able to say, “I don’t know what this is yet, but I need to follow it.” Second, creativity thrives on resonance, not consensus. One person who genuinely feels what you’re doing is worth more than ten people measuring it against a checklist. Consensus smooths edges. Resonance sharpens them. When someone says, “I don’t fully understand this yet, but something about it stayed with me,” creativity grows bolder. Third, instinct has to come before technique. Technique is important. It refines. It strengthens. But instinct is where stories are born. When instinct gets overridden too early by rules and expectations, creativity retreats. When technique is applied later, in service of the original impulse, creativity expands. Writers don’t lose their voice because they lack skill. They lose it when they stop trusting where that voice came from. Fourth, creativity needs breaks from judgment. Judgment has a sound. Writers know it well. Creativity, on the other hand, grows in quieter places — in wandering, in play, in moments when nothing is being evaluated. Sometimes the best thing you can do for your work is to step away from critique entirely and let the story rest until your voice feels like your own again. Fifth, creativity feeds on meaning, not approval. The moment the driving question becomes, “Will this be accepted?” creativity flinches. When the question is, “Is this true?” creativity leans forward. Stories that last are rarely born from the desire to be approved of. They come from the need to say something that feels necessary. Sixth, originality often feels lonely before it feels understood. New voices don’t always land smoothly. They don’t fit neatly into familiar frameworks, and that discomfort can make people try to correct them instead of listening. That doesn’t mean the work is wrong. Often, it just means it’s early. Or different. Or brave in a quiet way. And finally, creativity survives through boundaries. Not every opinion deserves equal weight. Writers have to decide when feedback comes in, whose voices matter, and when the door closes again. Boundaries aren’t walls. They’re breathing space. They protect the fragile moment when something new is still becoming. Creativity isn’t fragile. It’s shy. It steps forward when it feels safe. It retreats when it feels managed. What keeps creativity alive isn’t constant correction. It’s trust. Trust in instinct. Trust in time. Trust that a unique voice doesn’t need to be shaped into something familiar to be valuable. For writers everywhere, the work isn’t just telling stories. It’s protecting the conditions that allow stories to be born at all. If you’re a writer who has ever gone quiet after a review, or felt your story slipping away under too many well-intended corrections, you’re not broken — and your voice isn’t weak. Creativity doesn’t need constant management. It needs trust. It needs space. And sometimes, it needs you to close the door, turn back to the page, and listen for your own voice again. Are you hearing your own creative voice? That voice is still there. It always is. |