The Earth rings like a bell. |
"In 1973 women could not own a credit card," I learned from Sam Seder of the Majority Report. Sam went on to ask his caller, "What is masculinity? Is it a social contract?" I had a flashback to a blind date in 2003. She was literally blind. The waitress asked her, "Are you okay?" I felt I was being demeaned, "We're great." The waitress looked down at me and stated, "I was talking to her." Niki smiled, "We work together at K-Mart." We had a pleasant meal at the Weathervane. But, the waitress's attitude was disparaging. Niki was cute and I'm not and she's blind. I drove her to her apartment and she thanked me and nothing happened... My social experience with women is they judge me as a pudgy loser. I'm bald and I don't have a lot of money. While shopping at Market Basket a cute teenage girl asked me, "Are you retarded?" She was stalking the soup shelf in her Market Basket jacket and cute yoga pants. I was still wearing my restaurant uniform. Oy. I saw a gorgeous hotty walking in downtown Portsmouth. She had a plaid shirt on and was in a bikini with sandals. I was driving by and stared at her lovely tushy. She glared back, "Perve!" I swear I had an innocent expression, but I had my restaurant cap on. I wonder how Sam Sedar's female feminist cohosts would respond to my experiences? They probably flash their Cheshire Cat smiles. I don't believe I'm a misogynist, but the ladies dump on me a lot. People judge you at a glance.. I'm really quite a lovely person. :) Reflections~I passed out in my Lazy Boy and I should get some more Zzzzs. Muzzy |