My lessons with Flossie, a roan Standardbred mare |
FLOSSIE'S 52nd LESSON What a fabulous day to be riding! It was fifty degrees at our house when we left this morning, but I?m sure it was ten degrees warmer at Des?. As soon as I got out of the car I could feel the difference. Flossie lives in Waterford which is less than thirty minutes away from Eagleby. You?d think it wouldn?t make that much difference, wouldn?t you? Flossie?s been coming right up to me when I go to ride. I know I haven?t mentioned it, but she?s been doing that now for months. She watches us as our car pulls up the long drive and when I get close enough I roll the window down and shout hello. She watches me pull her saddle, bridle, pad, etc, out of the car and place them on the fence or on the ground next to it. When I?m ready for her, that?s when she starts coming towards me. I don't lunge Flossie any more. I also don't ask her to trot when I'm riding. We either pace or canter. This has been about four lessons in a row that I haven?t had to reprimand Flossie for one thing or another; she knows what I want and goes about trying to please. She is such a delight. I have her trotting and cantering around the track without stopping until I ask or a walk, in both directions. Her transitions are impeccable! She wanted to turn around when we got to the road again this week. I wouldn?t let her make a complete turn around, though. I had her face the track that she doesn?t want to face and then I just relaxed the reins and let her calm down. It didn?t take long. Once she relaxed, I asked her to go forward. I never had a problem again. We trotted, cantered, walked down that strip without a flinch after that no matter how many times we went around. When I had her face the track, I spoke to her in a soothing voice and said things like "You're going to have to be brave," and "You'll have to have faith in me." She understands my every word. I know she does. I didn't have to hit her with the crop, or kick her, or yell at her. Just simple talking; reasoning; explaining; encouraging, and most of all, letting her know I had faith in her. When she went, she tried to turn again after a few steps. I didn't allow her to turn around, though; I had her face the direction I wanted her to go in, relaxed, let go of the reins, and again talked to her soothingly and encouragingly. It didn't take as long as the first time. I told her to go ahead when she felt safe, which she did. I praised her up and down for taking the plunge and being courageous. The worse this mare does is give me a choppy gait that?s neigher a trot, pace, or canter. She can raise her legs up, hollow her back, and throw her head up which makes riding her very uncomfortable if not impossible. A whack on her shoulder with the crop, however, straightens her out immediately. Go figure. It's this gait I get from her whenever I ask for a trot, so I just don't ask any more. I had her doing straight lines in the paddock again and she?s getting so good at it now. It?s so hard to believe she used to have difficulties with that exercise. She?s starting to slow down at the canter. She?ll go slowly for a few strides at a time, but it?s a start. I love bringing her back down to a walk; she?s so prompt. I plan to bring her down from a canter to a halt next time I ride. I?m also working on slowing her other gaits as well. |