Shellyville Continues

Weakness vs. Passion

Hello Sunshine,

Has passion ever made you feel weak?

"Weakness is what passion dissolves" was a quote I was given last night by a friend.

It got me thinking about being strong and resistance to falling in love.To question the motives of the heart or the resilience of the mind.

I am a sucker for romance but realize I am strongly sitting in reality right now. I am not ready to ever be swiped off my feet. I think that happened for me once and I am not going to let that happen again.

Now I am wondering if that is a choice or a decision I have any control over? Will I ever be able to decide if I love again? Or will it happen anyway?

One thing I learned about being on a on-line dating site is that people are not who they seem. You have to meet in person and see and talk face to face to even make any kind of wise decisions. I know that much now. I am also not ever going to go on a dating site again. I would rather be alone then ever play that kind of game and it is a game. It becomes addictive and suggestive and unwise.

I am a smart women. I know I have weakness and I let the passion of the moment take over my heart. It's not love it's just acting like it. I am learning the balance of my true heart and being good to me.

Love,
Michelle