Shellyville Continues

Control and stress?

Hello my sunny pals,

How do you handle stress? Is it even something you can control? I am normally on top of it but it seems as if when one area in my life is out of balance the rest of my game it off.

I want to be balanced. I want to have a handle on my emotions and feelings. I want to be kind and good to myself all the time. I guess reality is hard to live with because I am not always in control.

Learning to let go of the things I am not in charge of has become a big ordeal. I am always conflicted about what is the right thing to do and am I being a major push over? When it comes to Jax I know I let him walk all over me. Why do I do that? I am not doing either one of of us any favors. I am struggling.

I have got to find my strength with him! Any suggestions on how to get a 10 year old to take a shower? Ugg!!

Love,
Michelle