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#982947 added May 7, 2020 at 12:36am
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Crossing My Path
I used to believe that we stayed basically the same person all our lives. Then I read something recently, but didn't bother to save a link, about how some scientists did a study on young people, then studied them again when they were older, and what they found that Old You doesn't really have anything in common with Young You. I mean, we've known this from a physical standpoint - cells get replaced and all that - but it kind of calls into question the idea of continuity of consciousness, and identity itself.

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I did save this link  Open in new Window., and it was destined to show up in here at some point. It might as well be now, because I used to have superstitious thoughts, myself, when I was much younger. But I'm a different person now.

The science of superstition – and why people believe in the unbelievable


The number 13, black cats, breaking mirrors, or walking under ladders, may all be things you actively avoid – if you’re anything like the 25% of people in the US who consider themselves superstitious.

Mirrors used to be remarkably expensive, which probably led to social shaming for anyone who broke one, kind of like we shame anyone who flagrantly wastes money. Walking under ladders can be a bad idea for very practical reasons; we tend not to look up, and if there's a ladder, there's a chance someone is on it doing something, and that someone might have slippery fingers, and having something fall on your head is a Bad Idea.

All sorts of explanations have been proposed for the number 13, from the astrological to plain number theory, but none of them are particularly compelling to me. However, there's no goddamn reason to be afraid of black cats. There's one pawing at my face right now. She just wants food. Robin is a good kitty.

Even if you don’t consider yourself a particularly superstitious person, you probably say “bless you” when someone sneezes, just in case the devil should decide to steal their soul – as our ancestors thought possible during a sneeze.

No, I say it because it's de rigeur, a social acknowledgement, like saying "goodbye," even though that literally comes from the phrase "God be with ye." It makes me uncomfortable to do so, though, because I know the origin.

Superstition also explains why many buildings do not have a 13th floor – preferring to label it 14, 14A 12B or M (the 13th letter of the alphabet) on elevator button panels because of concerns about superstitious tenants.

I've stayed in hotels run by and primarily for people of Chinese descent, and those hotels didn't have a fourth floor. As far as a superstition can make any sense at all, that one makes more sense than the "thirteen" thing; from what I understand, the Mandarin word for "four" is very similar to the one for "death." Or something like that, anyway.

Labeling the floor "M" is potentially confusing; that's usually for "Mezzanine," a term I still don't have a firm grip on, but I know that it exists and usually refers to the second floor of the lobby or, in theaters, a middle tier of seating.

On top of this, some airlines such as Air France and Lufthansa, do not have a 13th row. Lufthansa also has no 17th row – because in some countries – such as Italy and Brazil – the typical unlucky number is 17 and not 13.

Prime numbers just don't get enough respect.

Psychologists who have investigated what role superstitions play, have found that they derive from the assumption that a connection exists between co-occurring, non-related events. For instance, the notion that charms promote good luck, or protect you from bad luck.

Also known as "magical thinking."

For many people, engaging with superstitious behaviours provides a sense of control and reduces anxiety – which is why levels of superstition increase at times of stress and angst.

My take? If it makes you feel better, there's nothing inherently wrong with superstition -- provided, of course, no harm is done. The black cat one can directly cause harm, for example, to the cat as well as emotional damage to its human.

But if you insist on wearing the same underpants every time you play the lottery, who cares? Just wash those nasty things occasionally. Unless that's part of your superstition, in which case, get a grip, man. Clearly it isn't working, or you'd be rich by now, and you'd be better off getting a job and wearing clean underwear to it.

Superstitious beliefs have been shown to help promote a positive mental attitude. Although they can lead to irrational decisions, such as trusting in the merits of good luck and destiny rather than sound decision making.

Which is another reason to be wary of superstitions, though it's clear to me that "sound decision making" isn't a widespread human characteristic as it is.

A more traditional illustration is the Curse of the Pharaohs, which is said to be cast upon any person who disturbs the mummy of an Ancient Egyptian person – especially a pharaoh.

While the curse is of course utter nonsense, and we've learned a great deal about ancient humans by studying their dead, those poor bastards were buried or entombed for a reason, which is probably a similar reason to why we bury the dead today. Would you want your bones studied by archaeologists 6,000 years from now? Well, granted, you won't care, because you'll have been dead for 6,000 years, but that just brings up the uncomfortable question of why we do anything if we're just going to be dead in 6,000 years.

Superstitions practices tend to vary across sports, but there are similarities. Within football, gymnastics and athletics, for example, competitors reported praying for success, checking appearance in mirror and dressing well to feel better prepared.

Oh, those are terrible actions, just absolutely terrible. Wait, no they're not. Prayer (or meditation or whatever) can focus the mind, and wanting to look good is pretty damn universal.

So, clearly, superstition isn't all bad. Hell, I consider myself a rationalist, but there are some things I like to do that might be considered superstitious -- because they help me remember my purpose and goals. For example, I have a coin I carry around in my wallet that has sentimental value to me. Every time I open my wallet, I have to be careful not to let it fall out. This reminds me that I try to be careful with money in general, and hopefully keeps me from making stupid spending decisions. Well, most of the time. Well, sometimes. Which is better than none of the time, I suppose. It could easily be mistaken for a "lucky coin," but that's not how I think of it. Usually. Oh, no, now that I've talked about it, the luck will disappear. Dammit!

Still, leave black cats alone. Better yet, adopt one. Other than looking like little house panthers, they're just cats.

Just remember to feed them.

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