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The simplicity of my day to day. |
This is where I write my thoughts, feelings and my daily trials, tribulations and happy things
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As a child I was a real scaredy-cat. Everything used to frighten me, I was shy and timid. We made a massive decision when I was twenty eight to leave England and emigrate to Australia. At that time my husband and I along with our three year old daughter lived next door to my parents. We had a built in baby sitter and everyone I knew had known me since childhood. We knew no one in Australia, we had no job to go to and didn’t really know much about the country. From somewhere I found the courage to leave everything and everyone I knew. It was a good decision in the end but it was not easy. My children grew up without extended family and I often needed their help, but it made me strong and brave. |
I’ve always been a snap judgment type of person and usually that initial first impression has been correct. According to science within the first few seconds of meeting a person we make some sort of judgement about them. Most of the judgements will concern our values, the ones we were brought up to believe in. I was born just after the Second World War and hardly anyone in those days sported tattoos for instance. I was told by my parents that only Gypsies and Sailors had tattoos and were not to be trusted. How ironic that a few of my children and grandchildren are proud of their “ink”. I still don’t like tattoos though, but have learned that having them doesn’t make people bad or untrustworthy. I like to feel I’m less judgemental as I get older. Growing up in class conscious England made me the person I am today. We all knew which rung on life’s ladder we belonged. Everyone seemed to accept our position. It’s a ridiculous notion I agree. |