Under Construction - MHWA Retreat

Forgiveness? What's that?

I don't feel the need to forgive anyone for anything. Nor do I feel the need to be forgiven. Shit happens. If someone screws me over, I cut them off and move on. If I somehow screw someone over and they don't cut me off and move on, I lose respect for them... and cut them off and move on.

Life's too short to expect, ask for, or offer forgiveness. It's meaningless to me.

As to the specifics of my mental health issues... no, I haven't forgiven him. No need. Besides, he has never said he's sorry and likely never will. Just as well... I have no interest in hearing his apology. See how that works? It's a total non-thing.

I suppose the two of us are alike in that manner. Neither of us are the forgiving type, though we behave differently. He holds an active grudge when someone wrongs him... years and years of hate... out for revenge usually. I have no interest in that either. I hold active apathy... people who fuck me over are dead to me. What they say or feel or want is no longer relevant... so no forgiveness will be forthcoming.