Under Construction - MHWA Retreat

Oh my gosh yes, I agree! It is freaking DRAINING trying to be friends with someone and help them when they don't give a sh*t about themselves. I can't care for you more than you care for yourself, and I'm to the point where I won't. I have a friend like this. She doesn't care about anything. It comes to a point where I can't do it anymore. I started blowing her off more and more, talking less and less. If we have plans, of course I'll go but it's rare I make plans anymore with her. The thing is, we do our chiropractor together 2x a week and she's my ride so whether or not we ever hang out, we are still very much in each other's lives. Even that hour twice a week is draining for me. Any advice I give her she blows off and it comes down to the point that she admits that she just doesn't care. It's a friendship I've been on the verge of tossing out for many many years. I've been friends with her since preschool though so it's hard because she's more like a sister.. but that's the problem she's not my sister so I don't have to put up with her and act like she's just my annoying little sister because she's notttttttt. haha sorry