You swipe right, and are connected with a DM to Sarah who is pleased to have a contact. The chat is pleasant enough but she asks what sort of woman you like...blonde brunette, curvy, athletic, etc, and you surprise her by saying "I thought your OG pic was the prettiest, your purple skin looks like a polished gemstone, and your hair is a texture and appearance unlike anything I had ever seen. I saw tentacles in the pic, and guessing you either always have those in your natural form, or just manifest them with your powers as you need them, but well, if you wanted to try and date, I'd like to date the real you Sarah."
The chat goes quiet for a bit, and she responds "I've never had this before....no one ever wanted me as me... they wanted me for who else I could be, not for me... I.... I'd like to see you, go on a date maybe. I... well, um, I'd love to go to a human restaurant, I know for that part of the date I'd need a more human appearance, but maybe after, we could go to your place, and I could just be me?" You smile "I hate that you have to hide who you are, but I understand if you don't feel like getting stares in public. It sucks our world still has so much prejudice. But, sure, we can do that" Sarah is pleased "Ok, I'll be a dark haired woman in a purple dress with purple eyes..." and you two set the day, time and location.