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| So i'm 24 and back in March I met a girl who is 26 through my friend. The sittuation is kind of wierd because when I met her she litterally just broke up with her fiance about a week earlier. So to dig a little deeper I went over my friends house where my friend was hangin out outside and my friend and the girl I met were talking...she was cleaning out her car....I came over because my friend said she was over I told my friend on the night that I met the girl that she was really gorgeous and everything so my friend new I wanted to get to know her better...but anyways so, we all sat around for a few hours outside until around 6:30 7:00 or so by which time the girl said that she needed to go set up shelves at her new apartment because she needed to start getting everything all put away....I'm naturally a helping person and I had nothing to do that night so I said I would help her. So off I went to her new apartment but by the time we got there all we did was take out all of the stuff out of her car and bring it into the apartment. I would have to say by this point that I was generally attracted to her and I really wanted to get to know her more but I knew in the back of my mind that asking her out on a date was probably not a good idea because of the fact that she just broke up with her fiance. So, I decided to leave because it was getting late into the evening and I had work the next day...I left with out giving her my number....That day was a Monday. Surprisingly on Wednesday of that week she called me....she got my number from her sister cause she used my phone to call her....hmm kinda wierd how that happened huh. So I asked her if she would like to go out to eat and she agreed..so we did. After that though it seemed like all she called me for was to ask for help to build her shelves that she bought. My friend said that she had a bad feeling that she was doing was using me so i straight out asked her and when I did ask her I looked straight into her eyes and I saw nothing but disqust which made me believe that she wasn't just using me....I thought to my self that she was using the excuses of me building the shelves for me to come over to spend time with me. So theres a couple of sittuations where I helped her but overall, like I said before...I'm naturally a helping type of guy....if someone called me up and asks for help I usually drop what i'm doing and come to the rescue. I would do it for her anyways because I am attracted to her and I want to get to know her. When we first started talking she obviously showed the signs that she was interested in me....asking me questions, touching me, pulling her body towards me, flirting...everything....but now...she doesn't even look at me when I talk...no reaction when I speak...but she still calls me. There was a 2 week period where we didn't talk...I was in the hospital for a week and she said lost all of her numbers....I contacted her and since we have started talking and hanging out again but when I contacted her again she said she was glad I contacted her....I didn't ask for an explaination and she didn't explain. I have told her many times that she can be as open as she wants with me she still seems to be closed off for some reason. Even though I am attracted to her and deep down I would like to be more than friends with her I know right now that friends is the only place to be, because sometimes bestfriends make the best lovers. In my eyes she is an absolutely great girl who deserves the best...she is going through very hard times right now...breaking up with her fiance who she loved very much, moving her whole life into a new apartment, and having to find a new job. I just want her to know that I am there for her no matter what and I have told her that multiple times and I think she knows that but as the saying goes "actions speak louder than words". Shes a very sweet women and I believe that she does have feelings for me and that is why she does talk to me and does want to see where it goes. At this point in time I just dont know if I tell her my feelings or I just ride the wave and see what happens. |
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