A father's reflection on raising a girl to womanhood |
Starting in your father's eyes You are what he sees in your mother's reflection In the process passion is concealed from you Here lies the double standard To have a passion for life To have a passion for love To have a passion for things Who places the value on such things Now that mother's reflection is here Will I simply place a measure of love before you A time tested portion of inspiration metered out from the heart of this adult being This adult being whose DNA is similar to yours I present that love in sacrifice for you But will you always recognize it Recognize it, baby girl That which is love Momma or Daddy Irregardless of source We are carefully introducing you to Love In all its forms Agape Phila As this thing of caring comes to you From us Value it,digest it, identify with it Please For Eros is elusive and foreign to most Beware Eros Of itself,it is beautiful and a part of living Yet, I as man, as well as others Who will show you examples You will wonder about selfishness You will wonder about unselfishness Please know,baby girl These things exist of themselves,sterilely coldly......warmly......luke warmly Acting on you,prejudicing you,developing you Singly and Uniquely From the reflection which was your mother's eyes Success For me For You In You Is that your heart survives with what was placed in it through sacrifice It was pure sacrifice for you mixed with the tears of life the hardships of recognition the struggle to be someone shaded by the light which colors my skin Brown against a background of many shades All of which come to rest In a prayer of hope for you and for all mankind One that defies whatever man can defile as a matter of choice Singly and Uniquely Selfishly and unselfishly Go forth,baby girl shine in clear skies while clouds obscure your brilliance outlasting them vaporizing them Noontime,baby girl |