This is a test of your sexual identity. |
To question ones sexual identity is asexual. An asexual person is not certain if they are gay or heterosexual or both. Anyone with a little imagination can be labeled asexual. Freud believed that in our subconscious we are bisexual, seeking closure with authority figures in sexual unions with both genders. This was a theory. Let us pursue this as an experiment. Do you sexually fantasize about the same gender? Have you acted on these fantasies? Did you enjoy it? What are you looking for in a sexual partner? Memories, Dreams, Reflections by C.G.Jung: "I could not agree with Freud. He considered the cause of repression to be a sexual trauma. From my practice, however, I was familiar with numerous cases of neurosis in which the question of sexuality played a subordinate part, other factors standing in the fore ground-for example, the problem of social adaption, of oppression by tragic circumstances of life, prestige considerations, and so on." (Ch 5:147) Even the founders of psychology disagree on the origin of sexual identity. Many in the media would argue, "Do what feels good and don't hurt anyone." Well, that's a slippery slope into a sexual addiction. I have a dream! A country where anyone can get married as long as they are adults and love each other. Why not be polygamous? How many monogamous marriages end in divorce? The main reason for divorce is infidelity. If there are many wives and husbands in a polygamous marriage, why would there be infidelity? Essentially, a marriage is a legal contract to assure financial support for the children. That can better be accomplished with a larger group of parents contributing to the upbringing of the children of their commune. The sexual unions in this commune can be varied and consensual. This is asexual. It is also moral, since there is a contract that all participants agree to. If you feel differently, don't get angry; present a rational argument. Peace out! =+= |