Questioning- half solving a problem.

                Question Yourself

I don't consider myself as an expert in tackling situations but to console myself I am putting an effort.

After few heart breaks, I questioned why am I not progressing further in relationship?

Then I read few books on relationships from experts. Act like a lady, think like a man, it was good. I wondered if I had read that book years ago will I be in a happy relationship now? Probably yes.

Many married couples are in hurricane as well.
If they consult experts or read materials on marriages, wouldnt their situation improve?

We are often faced with difficult people be it family members- parents, siblings or anguished child, work colleagues etc. If we let them to calm down and approach it calmly, will it make a positive difference?

We are not happy about one thing or another. Such as physique, balances,... list goes on.
Instead of simply being miserable couch potato, if we even do tiniest bit of fresh start, wouldnt it do any good to practice little differences that make a difference?

Many of us are stuck in some moments of our past, struggling endlessly in the present or engulfed by future to follow. If we consult for proper support related to our wounds, difficulties and inevitable situations;
wouldnt it help us to find others- similar to us trying to cope?

Having asked all these questions, I am also aware that some problems and grief are larger than others.
But being a human that have survived through all the evolution from time immemorial, cant we gather bits and bobs of our hope, courage and never giving up spirit to begin for the new start?

Your answer could vary largely as we have freedom to think but atleast if you handle it in a different way;
will it make a positive difference?
Could be from others being positive to you, you being understanding to others or atleast you tried and gave your best.

World is a stage, men and women are merely players....- William Shakespeare.
If we play the game of our life with different approach and with our best skills to improve it, will the result be different?

For how we handle a situation reflects who we are and moulds who we may become.
May your answer become positive encouragement to others.
Find your answer within.....


-Shushma