Some aspects of friendship |
Brilliant friend Because of the very social nature of the human being, the term "friend" has never been a fresh word to them. Almost for sure, each and every one of the people on earth is seeking for an intimate, honest, and loyal friend. As is known to all, our friends are the most influential factor\force that can affect our lives in many fashions whether we are conscious of the influencing process or not. To appreciate how our friends play major parts in our lives, we should look at it from the very beginning of the embarking on a friendship. Visiting a new person with a great first impression, you certainly know that you are in for great surprises. Every new people we become familiar with, can open a brand new world for us which would broaden our horizon. In other words, each new person, could be considered as a turning point in our life; regardless of whether they play a walk on part in our life or stay with us for a long period of time. Being friend with a person with a specific school of thought which is usually consistent with the one of ours, can fortify our values and enhance our skills and personality. This kind of friendship is usually emotionally arranged and solidly based on common grounds. They can be absolutely supportive in rainy days and speaking to them would be the most straight forward way for sorting out our feelings. Based on such a solid understanding, which has been made throughout years, every now and then, they can provide each other with useful suggestions and applicable solutions. Looking at our friendship through a magnifying glass, we come to the conclusion that our friends can change our interpretations of a single event. To trust someone and believing in their trustworthy, can subsequently made us look at the world through their glasses. In long term, they would be the one who inform us how a certain concept work. At an opposite extreme, if they were not tactful enough, they could lead us to the progressively deterioration of values. We would also have lots of problems in pursuit of trusting to an allegedly reliable, tactful friend. Unfortunately, the result of this so-called friendship is being caught in a downward spiral of ill-advised solutions. Finally, friends are the most influencing part of our life. Ease of finding a friend doesn't necessarily means we are going to boost our life in any absolute sense. Based on the kinks of the friends we choose, we will be in a completely different situation. |