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 A new blog to contain answers to prompts |
Since my old blog "Everyday Canvas "  became overfilled, here's a new one. This new blog item will continue answering prompts, the same as the old one. Cool water cascading to low ground
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Prompt: What is one thing you need to let go of? Write about this in your Blog entry today. -------- The one thing I need to let go of is probably my not asking for help. I'm so used to doing things by myself and in my own way that I'm always reluctant to ask for help, even when offered freely by someone else, including my own kids. I sometimes forget how old I am, and usually, at the end of the day, I end up feeling worn out. On the other hand, letting go is not a cut-and-clear single act. The way I see it, it usually happens in layers, slowly, painfully, and maybe after much reflection. Yet, as people we need to let go of many things, which this prompt made me think about. So let's see what may be some things people may need to let go of: 1. Past hurts and resentments Holding on to anger, betrayal, or disappointment may feel justified, as if remembering such things prevents them from happening again. I'm okay in this area. In fact, I have truly forgiven any wrongs that were thrown my way and there isn't any one person on earth who I really dislike, either. 2. Guilt and regret Whatever happened, happened. Do I feel guilty about anything? If I did anything wrong, it was from lack of knowledge of the facts, as it was never out of malice. Still, I may regret, from time to time, to have done some things better in the past. 3. Unrealistic expectations Such expectations close the door on acceptance, adaptability, and peace. I don't think I have unrealistic expectations from other people or situations, but just maybe, at times, I push myself too hard. Yet, I also stop when I catch myself in the act. 4. Fear of Change Change is inevitable in life. So, why fear it! We all like familiarity for it is so comfortable as in jobs, habits, or relationships. While being steady and faithful are good in life, ,those shouldn't be the dominating factors. Then, of course, a sudden huge change can be disconcerting, too. 5. Comparing oneself with others: This was never my problem, only because it could shift my focus away from my own progress and values. But then, no one likes to lag far behind too much. So, it is a good idea to let go of such comparisons. They have no use for anybody. I am sure there are many other areas and things than these five, but that was what I could think of at this time. I'm also sure, other ideas on this matter will pop up inside my head after I finish this entry.  Furthermore, in many ways, letting go is an ongoing practice rather than a single moment, and I wish and hope that we may all choose growth, freedom, and peace over clinging to things that no longer serve us. |
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