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This video and entry focus on our behavior when using the internet/social media; things that impact our behavior; and some hard truths about what the future may hold if we don't get more introspective in a hurry.
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Having recently returned from Houston, I couldn't help but nod along as I watched this video.

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This is one of the most reasonable takes on social media (over)consumption I've seen in a while. This YouTuber also is one of the few people I've seen openly discuss what anyone regardless of age can do to manage their social media consumption without completely abandoning it altogether.

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She makes good points. It was hard for me at first to relate, since I don't use the big social media platforms. But I do occasionally gamble, so I get the whole "Skinner Box" analogy. Difference is, when I gamble, I stick to a predetermined limit.

Anyway, this isn't about how much better I am as a person, but I did want to note that she holds up video games as something that's a "better" waste of time than doomscrolling. Now, I'm a big fan of video games. I play them a lot. But I'm also well aware that a lot of today's games are specifically designed for both dopamine rushes and maximizing profit for the company.

Nothing wrong with profit, but some techniques for gaining it are shadier than others. I tend to avoid the games with microtransactions or other obvious (to me, anyway) methods for separating me from my money. I expect to pay for the game, fine; the people making them deserve to be paid. What I object to is keeping on paying them after I start playing the thing.

Point is, one needs to be careful about anything that works like a Skinner Box, not just social media feeds.
I found this useful. It's one reason why I keep non-on-line grounding goals like "cleaning the dishes" on my list. I find it easy to scroll... too easy.

I also tend to not binge-watch. I have a couple natural interruptions I pay attention to. Stray thoughts, like "did I open the window", "should I check the plants", "I need to pee" interrupts my concentration but helps in other ways. Anyone with children should feel blessed.

Thank you for posting as this is a common malady.
I will absolutely use this in multiple areas of my life, but I still won't have any social media. I will 100% tie myself in knots creating lies for the answers so I can keep scrolling. Unfortunately, I've spent most of my life in the orbit of alcoholics, and the excuses are wildly similar. I don't gamble for the same reason. Yet you could offer me microtransactions in a game all day long, and I will ignore you. Eventually you will tick me off enough that I will leave.

My point is similar to Robert Waltz Author IconMail Icon -- know where the Skinner Boxes are, but also know where your brain doesn't effen care it knows it's a Skinner Box, and act accordingly.
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