Grandma teaches her granddaughter a lesson in gardening and life. |
With a freshly steeped cup of strawberry flavored green tea, Angela stepped through the french doors onto her patio. She stopped briefly to take in the sights and sounds of her garden and smiled widely; a glint of happiness touching her eyes. The morning sun was breaking through oak trees at the far corner of the yard and two cardinals were chasing each other playfully between the magnolias. It was early June and the gardenias were in full bloom, painting the morning air with their fragrence. Bumblebees darted from flower to flower, dancing around the lush thicket of lavender. The southern magnolias displayed large white blossoms perched atop its branches, looking as though a breeze might at any moment send them spinning off like tops. Angela spent much of her time in the garden; deadheading spent blooms, trimming up runaway branches, and tending to every detail to ensure each plant's beauty was maximized. It wasn't all work, of course. There were times, like this morning, where she would join her aging cat, Randolph, on the bench swing and just sit and enjoy her efforts. Randolph raised his lazy head and purred at Angela when she took her seat next to him. Her hand reached out to scratch the underside of his jaw just the way he liked, and he squinted his eyes, content. She had just stretched her legs out on the ottoman ready to sip her tea when the phone rang. And wasn't it just her luck, she'd left the phone inside. Sighing, she went inside to answer the call. "Good morning, Angela speaking." "Hi, Mom. Good morning to you! It's not too early is it?" "No, dear. I was just about to enjoy some tea with Randolph on the back porch. What can I do for you?" "Well, I won't keep you. I need to ask a favor, however, for tomorrow. I'm going to take Ethan in for a doctors visit in the morning, and was hoping you could keep an eye on Lauren for me for a bit. I'd come by around 8:30, if that's OK." "Of course, honey, I'd love to have her by. I'll make breakfast if you want to come earlier. She can help me in the yard afterwards." "Thanks, Mom! We'll be by shortly before 8, then. Thanks again. I love you." "I love you too, dear. See you tomorrow." Angela hung up and returned to her cooling cup of tea and brought out a book of crossword puzzles to help her while away some time. She never worked in the yard on Sundays. The next morning Lauren burst through the front storm door nearly knocking the front table over when she slid over the hard wood flooring on the woolen door mat. "Hi Gramma!", she squealed. "Ohh!", exclaimed Angela, her arms suddenly full of excited 10 year old. She laughed, "Be careful, honey, you're going to hurt yourself on that rug one of these days." "OK.", replied Lauren, and with that she made her way into the living room calling after Randolph. Dora came to the front door next with Ethan in one arm and a large baby bag slung over the other. Angela took the bag from her daughter and kissed them both. "Good morning, little one." Dora followed her mother into the kitchen. The smell of freshly brewed coffee and pancakes hung deliciously in the air. The table was set, a plate of sliced cantaloupe and pitcher of orange juice inviting her to sit for a quick meal. "Sorry we're late, mom. Can I help you with anything?" "No, that's alright, I think I can still manage a simple breakfast.", answered Angela giving her daughter a small wink. "Lauren, come eat some breakfast with us before your mother has to leave." The meal passed with Lauren going on about swimming at her friend's house and bike riding in the neighborhood. She took small breaks to shovel a syrup laden forkful of pancake into mouth, then continued on before completely finishing to chew. Dora rolled her eyes, and shook her head. "Honey! We're listening, just finish chewing first." Dora pushed back her chair after eating and fussed with Ethan in his car seat carrier. Digging into the large blue bag with cartoon baby elephants and tigers on it, she found a rolled up pair of infant socks. "I brought Ethan's socks that you gave him. Are you planting today?" "Yes, I think so. Seems like a nice day for it." The four of them parted ways for the remainder of the morning. Mother and son went to the pediatrician and Angela with her granddaughter cleaned the breakfast dishes and went outside to the garden. Lauren got right down to business. She loved helping her grandmother in the yard. Filling a blue plastic bucket, she pulled the weeds up, roots and all when she could. She would glance over at her grandmother, beaming proudly, whenver she managed to get up a particularly tough weed. Meanwhile Angela was deadheading the Asian Lilies, their flowering time nearly done. The spent petals coloring the ground in orange, yellow and white. After the lilies, she trimmed up the holly bush. The holly always grew quickly, shooting out branches in all directions. Tiring of pulling weeds, Lauren stopped momentarily to watch her grandmother snipping off branches. She noticed how careful her cuts were and how she'd step back and view the shrub each time to make sure she wasn't taking off too much or making things uneven. She saw what she could describe as love for the plants. Seeing how much respect and care her grandmother showed her garden, Lauren went back with renewed interest in the task. Soon after, Lauren walked up to her grandmother, with a bucket brimming with weeds. "I'm done.", a big cheesey smile played on her lips. "Well done! Enough with the tending then, let's go plant something new!", said Angela, looking back at her granddaughter as she walked towards the shed. "Bring the bucket." After retrieving the tools needed Angela walked towards the back side of the yard near a hedge of sizzling pink lorapetalum. She was pushing a wheelbarrow that had in it a bucket of soil with fertilizer, a shovel, pruning shears and a small japanese maple. About fifteen feet from the hedge she stopped at a small 'X' of limerock dust. "X marks spots, right?", said Angela taking the shovel out of the wheelbarrow. "Maybe we'll find pirate treasure!", suggested Lauren getting excited. She'd always been asked to help her Gramma in the garden, but was never around for a new planting. She could see how happy Gramma was, and thought it must be something special to plant a tree. "We might not find any treasure, dear, but we'll certainly bury some." Angela looked around at the sun, and saw it was beginning to peak out from behind the oak's banches. The magnolias, standing about twenty feet tall, stood bordering the yard about forty feet to the left. There should be just the right about light and shade at the 'X', she thought. "It's important that you pick just the right spot for your new plants. Each plant needs a different about of light. They also should add to the look of the garden, and not take over anything. You know, be neighborly. There are some plants that take a few years to fill out and take their rightful place and make themselves be heard. Take your roses, for example. The first two years after I'd planted them, they were scraggly and their flowers, while still beautiful, didn't look anything like they now do." "Is that because you know how to take care of them, right, Gramma?" "Party, dear. Mostly, though, some things in life take time to take hold. We don't get to see the beauty in things right away. If we are patient, though, life will show us what we need to see." The hole dug, Angela took the sapling, removed the burlap sack around its rootball, and set it next to the hole. She then reached into her pocket and pulled out Ethans socks that her daughter had given her earlier. She then placed the socks gently into the hole, set the new maple on top of them, making sure the stem was straight, and covered the roots with potting soil from the bucket. After making sure the dirt was mounded properly and the new tree was watered, they made their way back to the house. Lauren waited for Gramma to finish washing her hands in the wash room sink. "Why did you put Ethan's socks in the hole? He won't be able to wear them anymore.", she asked, thoroughly confused. Angela smiled down at her granddaughter, "Well, they mark that maple as his. Do you know how I say those roses are yours? Well, when I first planted them, nearly 10 years ago, I placed your infant cap into the soil also. The way I see it, a small piece of you is helping to keep those roses as beautiful as they are. Whenever I'm out in the garden, I can look at them and feel like you are here with me. Now your baby brother will be out here along with us." "Is anyone else in the garden?", asked Lauren moving up to wash her hands now. "More than that, dear. When you've finished cleaning up and changing out of your dirty pants, come into my library. I want to show something." Angela sat on her rocking chair, surrounded by shelves of books, family pictures and various memorabilia. She stared out the window to the front yard. On her lap sat a small leather bound book. It looked well worn, as though she had read it a hundred times. Lauren came in and hopped into the recliner next to Gramma. "What did you want to show me?" "I wanted you to see this book. It's a map to my own pirate's treasure.". Her granddaughter's eyes grew with excitement and she leaned forward anxiously waiting to see the map. "Really?" Angela chuckled at the reaction, "Well, yes and no, dear. You won't find ancient maps of deserted islands, but what's in here is worth more to me than all the gold in the world". She handed the book over to Lauren, who had by now jumped out of her recliner, curiosity getting the best of her. The young girl briefly admired the cover of the book, which had a lone oak stamped into it. She opened the book to a random page somewhere near the beginning. Inside she read the following, written in her grandmother's neat script. Sept. 23, 1972 For my dear brother, Clifford. You have meant the world to me and I will always treasure the times we shared, the good and the bad. You never thought twice about lending a hand or telling me things I needed to hear, no matter how hard they were some times. I miss you terribly. Japanese Cherry Tree - dog tag - Thinking about the first time you let me play baseball with your friends. Thanks for including your little sister, even though your friends didn't want some girl to play. - I was talking to Jerry tonight about your decision to go to Vietnam. I know you are still over us protecting us, even now, but it pains me that your niece will never know the wonderful man you were. .... Lauren looked up at her grandmother, saddened and confused. "Keep reading, honey. Pick another page.", suggested Angela. Lauren flipped a few pages further. March 14, 1976 Robert Joseph Norton is born! At 7 lbs. 12 oz. and 21 inches, little Robert entered my world. I could not be happier on this day. Southern Magnolia - bib Lauren flipped to another page. May 23, 1981 BS in Mathematics from USC. I finally, made it through! I'm so proud of my accomplishment and thankful for Robert's supporting me. Fragrant Tea Olive - Final exam "Is this your diary, Gramma?" "Sort of, yes.", she looked over at her granddaughter. "On each page of the book, so far, I've written down some of the most important memories of my life. The people I've known, the things we've done. Some of it is good and some of it is bad, but it is all there for me to look back on." "Why are there plants listed?" "The reason I care so much for my garden, is that it holds the memories of my life. I plant something personal with every tree and bush so each marks a moment of happiness or loss for me. Even some of my regrets have earned a place in the yard. They are all a part of who I am, and have all contributed to my life. Taking care of the plants I have listed on each page, helps me remember those wonderful moments and people, as well the lessons I've learned from my mistakes. When you get a little older, you'll understand a bit more, but keep this mind. Cherish your family and friends, and don't get too disappointed when things don't seem to work out for you. Remember your roses. Sometimes it takes time for things to make their beauty known." |