Can't Move On?

“I know I’ll never be able to move on.”



-this is what we usually hear from people who are love shattered and heart broken. Is it true?



Those are the words our heart keeps on saying, but remember that you will never make it if you don’t let your mind speak.



These are three easy stages on how to move on from break-ups or anything:



1. FORGIVE.



There is this popular saying that you can never carry on with your journey with a heavy burden in your heart. Take some time to reflect on forgiving. Remember that it does you no good to stay angry at someone. That would only make it harder for you.



You need to forgive yourself too. You know you didn’t mean to make mistakes. We make mistakes to learn from them. If you’ve learned your lesson, now you know what to avoid next time.



2. LET GO.



For you to be able to go on with your life, let go of the things that keep you from moving on. It’s like being trapped in a burning house–you wouldn’t make it out of the house if you don’t want to leave your things behind.



Letting go takes time. You need to help yourself. If you find it difficult to let go of something or someone, keep in mind that there are better things waiting for you–maybe that’s why this didn’t work out for you.



3. MOVE ON.



This is the part where you grab the chance to start anew. Starting over is not as bad as it sounds–at least you know what to do and what to avoid next time. Let new people take part of your life and help you become a better person. In this way, you wouldn’t only forget about your past but also find new joy and meet new friends.



We know it is always “easier said than done.”



Moving on is not as easy as it sounds, but you will be able to move on no matter what and that is for sure.



As you go along with your life, there would always be obstacles and challenges waiting for you, but there is nothing that you can’t overcome. Ask friends to help too for no one can survive in this world alone.



Remember to pray too. Don’t underestimate the power of praying for it can help you more than anything.



We are given challenges not because God wants us to suffer but because He knows we can overcome it.



The harder the challenge, the more we should be proud because it only means He believes in us that much.



You are strong, that’s why you are still fighting today.