Self-motivated and stubborn. You cannot motivate her by promise of reward or the threat of punishment. She will become ANGRY if you try and push her beyond her limits. High intellectual energies. She is a thinker. Her mind will not shut off. She also has the ability to see pictures and images in her mind. Moody. Her mood swings follow her thinking process. If she thinks UP, her mood goes up; if she thinks DOWN, her mood follows. She has moderately low self-esteem. Perfectionist. She expects perfection from herself as well as others, She is also critical of herself and others. Has dry or wry sense of humor to keep people at a distance so they don't deplete her energy. Compulsively demands order, truth, reliability, and dependability from self and others. In other words, she expects her friends and family to keep their word. If pressured into making decisions or taking on responsibility in unknown areas, she tends to procrastinate. If she is pressured long enough, she will rebel and become angry. Will give advice to other people ask but will not pressure them into following her advice. Expresses a great deal of love and affection, and requires a moderate amount. Expresses her love by hugging, touching, and stroking. Has a dry or wry sense of humor that she uses to keep deep relationships from controlling her. Protects her energy level, and tends to hold off her deep relationships from draining her with her dry or wry sense of humor. Optimistic. This youth believes if she tries harder, a relationship will eventually work out. Has the capability of being able to handle moderate amount of rejection from her deep relationships. Has outbursts of anger; however, her anger does not last long. Five minutes after she explodes she forgets what made her angry. After a deep relationship has been established. She can become demanding, and require a moderate amount of love and affection. She often puts up walls, because she has been hurt before and is fearful of being hurt again. Overall she is a puzzle, a mystery, a story. The deeper you travel within her the more you become frustrated. Only the strong and brave stay and try to find out what makes her. It's not an easy journey. Some will give up on her, some will break her down. Just know she is up for anything. |