This is how I honestly feel, to spare feelings nurses sometimes tell a little white lie! |
Sometimes truth is not the best thing for someone to be told. It may be in their best interests if you decide to withhold a piece of news that will haunt and may lead to misery. So a liar you become and although that may well be the right thing to do, it will not stop you feeling guilt, and you will erode the foundations of any trust built. If the lie involves telling, it was a very peaceful death, when you know their loved one fought for every breath, after they have gone, thanked you for all that you’ve done, that untruth will then prevent any healing rays of sun from giving you peace, for easing your troubled mind, for it will be harder to forget the details and you’ll find that you’ll see that dead face floating time and time again before your eyes, and you’ll relive the anguish and pain. You’ll know you did right but you’ll feel very insecure in your belief, in your honesty, for you can be very sure the relatives you helped were at the cost of your code of morality. They probably will never realise you’re owed a great debt of gratitude for the burden that you took on, when you told that little lie about their loved one who’s gone. |