I'm an Australian lady who is somewhere in her 40's. I have been happily married for 20 years. I've two children, my daughter Brooke (14), and my "foster" son Pete (16). I live in a country town in the Central West of New South Wales. I've a dog, cat, budgie, 9 fish and about 13 of our herd of 27 alpacas live with me too. We've been here 3 years, and am slowly adjusting to country life after 40-odd years in the city. Focusing on the positives of a major change is the only way to go... .