I am 51 years old and have been a mother more than half my life. I won't tell you how many children i have. I spend a lot of time reflecting on my life. So I am here to talk about those things. I write this mainly for me but also for those that can relate or want to learn something from my own experiences. I have many facets to me and for many years of being a wife and mother, I had forgotten to nurture those other sides.