I have tried to summarize my observation with vivid and simple manner. |
To celebrate growing older, I once wrote few lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I've ever written. _ 1. *Life isn't fair, but it's still good. * 2. *When in doubt, just take the next small step. * 3. *Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will. * 4. *You don't have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself. * 5. *Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone. * 6. *It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it. * 7. *Make peace with your past so it won't mess up the present. * 8. *Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about. * 9. *Take a deep breath every now and then. It calms the mind. * 10. *Get rid of anything that isn't useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways. * 11. *Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger. * 12. *It's never too late to be happy. But it’s all up to you and no one else. * 13. *When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer. * 14. *Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy clothes. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special. * 15. *No one is in charge of your happiness but you. * 16. *Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?' * 17. *Always choose life. * 18. *Forgive others and yourself. * 19. *What other people think of you is none of your business. * 20. *Time heals almost everything. Give time a little time. * 21. *However good or bad a situation is, it will change. * 22. *Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. * 23. *Believe in miracles. * 24. *God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.* * * 25. *Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now. * 26. *Growing old beats the alternative of dying young. * 27. *Your children get only one childhood. * 28. *All that truly matters in the end is that you loved. * 29. *Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. * 30. *Envy is waste of time. Accept what you already have, not what you need. * 31. *The best is yet to come... * 32. *No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. * 33. *Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift." Friends are the family and family is best friends that you choose. |