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I don't really see myself being at home with the kids while my husband it at work either, I don't think that would really make me happy, no matter how much I would love my kids, or how much I would love to be there for them..

That's why I don't really see myself as a mum in the first place, I don't even want to think about giving up work and all the freedom I have right now.

But I would want to be with my kids if I were to have them somewhere in the far future. In Holland a lot of parents both have full time jobs, and drop the kids at their own parents or somewhere else.. I understand that they both want to work, or have to because otherwise they won't be able to support the kids, but still, I think it's very important that kids grow up with their parents around.

"I'll ride the trail till the stars turn pale
And camp at the break of dawn
Nobody will know which way I'll go
They'll only know I'm gone."