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See, on one hand I wanna be a stay at home mum. On the other hand I wanna have a career and travel and earn shit loadsa cash and meet tons of people and have a blast and do drugs and experiemtn with sexuality and be a fool. But then... I feel like i was made to get married and buy into all that Disney fairytale crap where mummies and daddies live happily ever after, in love, with beautiful, bohemian children running around creating life, creating art, laughing, smiling thinking everything's perfect. That dream-like microcosm would be amazing. But I know real life wouldn't be like that, so again I go back to wanting my career and freedom.

So, then I figure a compromise has to happen. I'll have my career, put kids on hold til I can afford a house and car and all the trimmings, then get Peter to pregnant-me-up and then stay home with the kids while he goes out and earns us our living. And then we'll swap back over again and I'll go back to work and so on.... But maybe all that changing and coming and going would give the kids an unstable upbringing. Or maybe varience would do them good...

I don't think there's a right or wrong when you're trying to bring up kids... Trial and error and making the best of what you've got I guess...

Well, that's my input on the topic!