A Jane Austen Quote About Complaining and Pity. |
Prompt: "Those who do not complain are never pitied." Jane Austen Women in Jane Austen's time were afraid to complain. Afraid of their husband's wrath and were supposed to be seen and not heard. In silence, they suffered and their friends pitied them because they knew how they felt. If you feel pain and sickness and you don't go to a doctor, how can he help you if he doesn't know you are sick? He doesn't want to pity you. He wants to help you. The mentally ill complain a lot and you may pity them but you try to help them. If you don't complain and let people walk all over you, maybe you don't want to hurt someone. You think its better for you being sad then some other soul. Complain, let your feelings out, you will feel better and we all need a friend. Don't complain all the time. Do I want pity if I complain? No. I just want answers to the problem I have having. If I don't complain, no one will help me. I just feel sad and try to solve this matter on my own. I want a friend and a shoulder to cry on. We all need a friend from time to time. I do at least. I will complain when I have to. Don't pity me. Be a friend. I will do the same for you. Jane Austen is right. If you don't complain, who will know how you feel unless you are crying and look sad. I am sure women in Jane Austen's time complained but just to a close sibling or good friend. Complain. Say what is bothering you. Don't be ashamed. I am sure that someone can help you. Don't seek pity. Seek friendship, love, a solution and happiness. Pity those who are mean or those who suffer in silence. Life is too short to be sad and pitiful. Find a way to be happy and speak up! |