I have a nasty habit of planning what I write in my head rather than on paper, never remembering what I read- if I remember anything at all- and saying/writing diatribes while inebriated. Those first two are still an issue, but I like to think I'm getting better at controlling the third. I'm fairly open, so long as you ask the right question, and am very oblivious as the day is long, something I'm trying to get better about.