If I review you, and you think I'm being "harsh" or "unfair" - understand it's nothing personal. I try to not write reviews that praise the author too much, because those sorts of reviews are worthless save for as ego trips. I expect the same from people who review me - I would much rather receive a review that helps me improve my prose than one that just makes me feel good (though, to be fair, those are always nice, too.) Try to take everything I say with a grain of salt, and thick skin.