I grew up in South Florida where all the chaos stems, so it has provided me with a plethora of material to work with now that I'm 3 careers deep into raw dogging life in America. It takes a certain kind of breed to control chaos without it consuming you entirely. I was in recovery once, and I'm not anymore [because I evolved into a whole ass person]. That motto should have more traction. Recovery is not linear, neither is life. Nothing is, including time. I hope more people are able to see others beyond their respective categorical boxes on forms. We're so much more. Don't get discouraged if you haven't found your tribe yet. I'm around.