To me self love is treating yourself to maybe a chocolate after dieting for a whole week. To me its taking care of yourself and being confident in yourself. I reward myself with another cup of coffee (my usual is only 2 cups a day). Or some cookies I'm not supposed to have. If I can't love myself, how can I expect anyone else to love me.
Be the type of person that when you wake up the devil and his minions say "Oh crap! They're up!"